Extreme No Contact: What is it and How Does it Re-Attract Your Ex

Breaking up followed by going into No Contact after a breakup can make it even harder to deal with because it goes against the instinct to fight for your relationship and to remind the person you love why you belong together. It can be so difficult that even when you’re in No Contact you find yourself obsessed and hyper-analyzing everything you can find at a distance, just hoping for a sign or signal that they miss you. But there are some situations when the normal No Contact principles can actually keep you attached and locked into an unattractive position longer – causing the breakup to drag on and for the No Contact to start to feel like an indefinite purgatory or limbo – keeping you close enough to have hope but still too far to actually get fully back into the relationships. Sometimes blocking them, ignoring breadcrumbs, and projecting even more strength and determination to move on is not only the best path to go to get over them, but it’s the most powerful way to win them back. In this video Coach Ken covers the scenarios that make it vital for you to demonstrate the willingness to walk away from the very person you so desperately want to win back.

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