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Are You Heading in the Right Direction?

Are you heading in the right direction?

Where are you going?

Like most people, you’ve probably wondered, at times, if you were heading in the right direction. Maybe you’re even wondering that very thing right now. Maybe you’ve been going back and forth between two or more alternatives and you have no idea which way to go – and that’s why you’re reading this article. Maybe you’ve even done a ton of research, but you still can’t make up your mind.

You’re not alone.

How would you feel if you could know that you’re moving in the right direction? What if you could be absolutely certain about it?

I’ll bet you’d feel pretty damn good. You’d more than likely feel some relief, right Maybe even happier? More free?

Well, you can become that certain. You can experience all of those feelings and more. You can find out with 100% accuracy if you’re going in the right direction. And the Universe will deliver to your doorstep whatever it is that you really desire.

But that can only happen when you utilize one specific “super-power”: decision.

Coaching Tip: Be certain about your goals in life. You'll feel accomplished if you're going to the right direction.

The power of decision

Transformation happens in your life when you start to make real decisions.


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I can hear some of you now: “But, Shawn, I decide all the time. I make decisions every single day.” I’m sure you do. And you’re probably very good at making certain kinds of decisions.

However, when it comes to the decisions that you really have to weigh out — that could catapult you to an entirely new level in life — how well have you been doing? Are you feeling stressed out over those decisions? Anxious? Have you been asking other people what they think you should do?

You see, when you make a decision that you’re 100% committed to, you can move mountains. The people, resources and ideas to make it happen will gravtitate toward you very quickly — but not until you’re 100% in. When you truly decide at this level you are making a declaration to the Universe: “This is how it’s going to be.”

Anything can happen when you discover the things about which you can be truly passionate and excited, and when you make a from-the-gut level decision to follow whatever that happens to be. The Universe will respond appropriately.

Coaching Tip: Transformation happens in your life when you start to make real decisions. Anything can happen when you discover the things about which you can be truly passionate and excited about.

Use your super power

So then, what happens when you’re feeling uncertain? Use your “super-power!” It’s the perfect time to make a decision! 

When you’re fully committed to your decision, you’ll pool all your resources, all your effort, all your energy into making it the right decision.

What if it turns out to be the wrong decision? That will become apparent very quickly and you can adjust your course accordingly! That said, if you don’t make a decision, that’s a decision in itself and nothing will change.

Imagine:


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  • There you are, sitting in a restaurant and you’re very hungry. The waiter brings you a menu which you examine thoroughly to decide what you want. You think you might want the steak. Then you turn the page and the linguini really catches your eye. Now, you just can’t decide. You hum and haw, but to no avail. This goes on for quite some time. You ask your dinner guests what they think you should order and you can see that they’re getting anxious, but you just can’t make up your mind. What happens? Nothing. (if you’re lucky the waitress will recommend something, but in this instance, the waitress is new and has never tried either dish;-)

The point is this: You need to decide.

Be your own hero

As I mentioned, it is also vital to undertand that with time, the very act of not deciding becomes a decision, as well.

If you want to experience absolute certainty about where you are going, you MUST harness the power of decision. The only real way to transform your life and move closer to your true desires (and to do so with the incredible excitement and sense of power that comes with certainty) is to decide.

I encourage you to decide where you are, with what you’ve got. If you have to, start small. Take baby steps, if you have to. Just get started.

You can be your own hero.

Becoming a master decision-maker doesn’t happen overnight, however. You must use this “super-power” consistently.

With practice, it will become permanent.

You can be the star of your own life. You don’t have to be an extra. But you’re going to have to make decisions. Right or wrong, making a decision will get you moving. And you’ll find out one hell of a lot quicker if it’s the right one, than you will by sitting on your ass doing nothing.


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So, the power is in your hands.  What are you going to do with it?

Coaching Tip: Becoming a master decision-maker doesn't happen overnight. With practice, it will become permanent.


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