Look the Part

If you want to be successful, then you have to dress the part.

Many of us want something more, something better for ourselves. Others want to be something more. Whatever it is that you want, you can help yourself to achieve it simply by how you look.

Just changing your image and outward appearance won’t automatically get you a promotion or help you find a suitable mate, but it is an integral part, whether you realize it or not. Just by reading this article, it shows that you have the essential tools for accomplishing your goal – desire. These helpful hints will help you to take some easy actions and change your image, part of an overall strategy to help you get what you want by looking the part.

Find style icons

No, you don’t have to find a supermodel to model yourself after, but you do need to find someone who has already achieved the same success you are hoping to have. If you want a promotion, your style icon could be your boss or someone who is currently in that role. If you want to get a date, pick someone you know that is good at attracting potential partners. If your goal is to be more confident, studious or faithful, choose someone who you think embodies the quality that you are seeking to attain.

Watch what they wear, how they groom themselves and how they accessorize themselves. Take notes on their hygiene and their physical fitness. If your new style icon is someone you are friends with or a person who you already know in a mentoring roll, you can even ask them to describe their style and to give you hints and tips. Be more discrete if you have chosen your boss or someone who might be a competitor or a rival.

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Don’t copy them exactly, but take some cues. If they get their haircut regularly, always have their nails neat and trim and head over to the gym a few times a week, you should consider doing the same. If they wear suits, polished shoes or fitted jeans, you want to follow in their lead. Again, you aren’t setting out to be their clone, but you do want to learn some lessons from their attire.

Stand up straight

Posture can play a big role in how others see you. If you slouch or are hunched over, your body language tells others that you lack self-esteem and confidence, even though in reality, that might not be the case. Stand and sit up straight to look more self-assured, comfortable and confident. You will also look like you are happier and healthier. Essentially, this good posture makes you instantly appear to embody a lot of characteristics that people seek in others, whether they are looking for a new hire or a new best friend.

Remember to sit and stand in a straight, natural manner. If you are stiff as a board, you will look like you are rigid, stiff, uptight and nervous. You will also become very uncomfortable quickly. If you have trouble walking the line between rigidity and slumping, start doing some exercises for your core and lower back muscles and read up on posture.

Keep it current

Make sure your clothing, hair style and makeup are current. If you have been wearing the same suit for the past decade or rocking the same hairdo for the past five years, it may be time for a change. You probably don’t want to look trendy, unless that somehow fits in with your goal, but you want to look modern and fashion forward.

This can do a lot of things for you. The first is that you will look nice. The second is that you will look like someone who is current, well-informed, receptive and stylish. Depending on your goal, these qualities could be more or less important to you, but they will help you in most scenarios.

Also, by looking good, you will have better self-esteem, and self-confidence is essential when striving for any goal. People feel better when they look good, and people who feel better have an easier time working for what they want.

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Conclusion

The way you look can play a big part in whether or not you reach your goals. Your image helps those you meet create ideas about you; it affects how they perceive you. It also changes how you feel about yourself, and how you interact with the world around you.
There are many things that need to come together when working toward most goals. Image is just one of these things. By fashioning yourself after someone that has achieved what you are working toward, watching your posture and keeping your styling modern, you are taking a large step in the direction of success.

Keep in mind that perception is reality for most people. You have control over your image and how others perceive you, so make the most of it on your path to personal, professional or academic success.

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