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Home > Business coaching > What Do You Do When You Fall Out Of Love With Your Business

What Do You Do When You Fall Out Of Love With Your Business

Finding that spark

Last month I met with Tasha, we connected at a Ladies In Business event and got chatting. she’s a web designer who works from home and loved that her business allowed her to be with her two young boys. But after a few years, Tasha started feeling “blah” and a little “meh” about her business. She said that her projects no longer excited her. She found herself feeling like each job was a repeat of the one before it. She no longer had the “spark” that got her out of bed each morning, looking forward to building her business.

I felt that one.

Sometimes I get the same, we all know running a small business is a constant ebb and flow, but when it gets monotonous, our flame can die down and it can just seem like a chore. We talked about finding more joy and ease in our businesses and came up with a list that I hope you can look back on if you feel your business flame dying at any point.

Joy Sparker #1: Try something new

Sometimes, your business feels stale and boring because you keep doing the same things in the same way.

  • You always market to the same crowd.
  • You always release products around the same topics. It’s time to shake things up.
  • Try something new that sounds fun or challenging to you.

​Maybe this means running a workshop, hosting a month-long challenge, or creating an e-course.


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It doesn’t matter what you try or even how it turns out – just breaking out of your routine can be enough to spark a fresh round of joy in your business.

Joy sparker #2: Work with people you adore

  • You know that client?
  • The one whose name you see in your inbox and you instantly, cringe knowing it’s going to be a long day?
  • What would happen if you let them go? (ooh how did that just feel when you read that?)
  • What if you filled your client roster with only with people you delighted in working with?

Maybe you can’t afford to drop that client right this second. But sit down and look at what it would take.

  • Would you need to find another client to replace that income?
  • Do you know another service provider that this client might be a great fit for? You might also find it helpful to look at the clients and customers you do love working with.
  • What do they all have in common?
  • What’s different about their projects?
  • Why do they delight you?

Thinking about these questions can help you determine how to screen your clients in the future, so you only work with people you genuinely like and enjoy helping.

Joy sparker #3: Make a joy log

As you go through your week, pay attention to what brings you joy and when you’re working inflow.

Make a list of these tasks and why you enjoy them.

There’s no wrong or right answers here – you might love writing copy but hate working on technical tasks for your website.

Perhaps you enjoy administrative tasks like bookkeeping, but don’t enjoy being interviewed on podcasts.


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Once you have a few items on your joy log, pause to read it over. Ask yourself if there are ways you could do more of these tasks.

For example, how could you do more copywriting in the future?

Joy sparker #4: Listen for the dread

Just as you want a joy log, you should also note which tasks you dread.

You might call this the “drudgery list”. Put everything on it that you find boring, tedious, or just plain difficult.

Now take a peek at the list.

With each task, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Does this have to be done?
  • Is it essential to my business?
  • Does it have to be done by me?
  • Could I outsource it to someone else?
  • What would I need to do to outsource this?

These questions can help you remove dread from your business so you can get back to focusing on what makes you truly happy.

Joy sparker #5: Reward yourself

It’s easy to move from accomplishment to accomplishment without celebration.

You managed to clean that virus off your website. You finished that big client project.

You set up your shopping cart software.

But the problem with never celebrating is that you can lose the feeling of accomplishment. The days begin to blur together in a never-ending to-do list that seems impossible to master.


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It’s a sure recipe for burnout!

To spark joy, try to find one accomplishment to celebrate in your business each day. This can be big like landing a new client or publishing your book. But it can be small too like discovering how to install a WordPress plugin or researching how to get started in a new niche.

Celebrate The Little Wins As Much As The Big Ones!

Joy sparker #6: Change you environment

If you always work out of your home office, consider packing up your laptop and going mobile.

Run your business from a co-working space, your local library, or your favourite coffee shop, even if it’s one day a week, or maybe just for an hour or so.

Working in a different setting can cause you to look at old problems in new ways. It can inspire you to hear the hustle and bustle of people around you. Plus, it increases creativity and helps you learn new things faster. Two hours a week of working outside of the home can starve off small business isolation!!

If you can’t change your environment, trick your brain. Use a noise generator and put on sounds from a coffee shop, office, or waterfall. The soothing background noise can provide the same effect as if you’d actually gone somewhere else. The ‘Atmosphere’ App is amazing for this, you can create whatever background sounds you’d like from a huge library of sounds.

Joy sparker #7: Create just for you!

When you work as a service provider or business owner, it’s easy to get into the habit of producing purely for the benefit to other people or your brand.

While this can be good, it also has a downside: you ignore projects that would be creatively fulfilling.

It’s OK to work on a passion project that doesn’t make you any direct income. In fact, it’s a great way to inspire yourself. Not every word you write or graphic you design has to be for public consumption.

You can create simply for the joy of making your art.


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Joy sparker #8: Go for a makeover

Sometimes, you just need a makeover. This might mean getting your website redesigned, switching up your branding, or even rearranging your office.

It doesn’t have to be a huge change either – it could be something simple like switching fonts on your website or choosing a colour scheme that’s a better match for your office space.

Create a space for you to play and experiment with new ideas or designs.

Maybe grab a few paint swatches for your home office.

Ask a graphic design friend to create a brand board for you on Pinterest (remember to offer a favour in exchange!).

Joy sparker #9: Define your special sauce

You bring magick just by showing up. It’s your “special sauce” but to you, it’s so common you don’t recognise it. You don’t realise what your gifts or special talents are.

Take a moment and ask a business friend what you’re good at. Then listen to the answer—it might surprise you to learn that your friend thinks you have an amazing knack for writing killer copy or a gift for making complicated tech problems simple. Make it your goal to spend more time this week focused on your “special sauce”.

  • Do the activities your business friends say you’re good at and evaluate how you feel at the end of the week.
  • Was there more joy and ease in your business?
  • Do you feel excited to get back to work again?

These are clues that you may need to spend more time focused on these areas.

Joy is yours for the taking!

Your business can be filled with joy and ease if you want it to be. All you have to do is make a declaration that you choose to delight in and enjoy your business. Then start looking for ways to make that happen.

You never know what you might discover along the way!



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