Sarah Harkness

About Me

I’m Sarah Harkness, a dating and relationship coach and the founder of Austin Elite Matchmaking. I work with successful, self-aware professionals who are ready to approach love in a more intentional, elevated, and emotionally healthy way. My coaching is designed for people who are tired of repeating the same patterns, feeling discouraged by modern dating, or struggling to find a relationship that feels truly aligned.

My work blends dating strategy with deeper relationship coaching. I help clients gain clarity on what they want, identify unconscious patterns that may be blocking connection, strengthen communication skills, set healthier boundaries, and show up in dating with more confidence and self-trust. I’m especially passionate about helping people move out of confusion, overthinking, and burnout and into a dating life that feels grounded, empowered, and authentic.

With a background in human behavior, communication, and high-touch client service, I bring both emotional insight and practical guidance to my coaching. I believe that finding the right relationship is not just about meeting more people. It is about becoming more clear, more aligned, and more equipped to recognize and build healthy love when it appears.

Whether you need support navigating dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, refining your standards, understanding your relationship patterns, or preparing for a more meaningful partnership, I offer a compassionate but honest approach that helps you move forward with clarity.

Coaching with me

Results & Goals

The goal of these sessions is to help you date with more clarity, confidence, and emotional intelligence. Together, we work toward breaking unhealthy patterns, refining your standards, improving communication, and creating a stronger foundation for the kind of relationship you truly want.

How I like to coach

I like to coach in a way that is honest, supportive, and highly personalized. My approach is thoughtful and direct. I create space for real reflection while also helping clients move toward practical shifts and clear next steps. I am not here to offer cookie-cutter advice or tell you what you want to hear. I am here to help you better understand your patterns, strengthen your self-awareness, and make more intentional choices in dating and relationships.

Experience, Certifications & Training

Certifications and Degrees

• Certified Dating & Relationship Coach
• Certified Life Coach

Fee description

Each session is $150/hour